
If we’re unable to feel the love, we’re not present.įrom this place we begin to see beyond our own limiting thinking and recognize how our thinking in the first place was the cause of our problems. And from this place of presence the experience of love is always guaranteed. We begin to spend less time in our heads and we become more present. We begin to have more time on enjoying the love and the feeling of connection when it comes to the other person and to fully enjoy our relationships. When we see beyond our own stressful thinking, challenges and low moods, we let go of the things that weight us down and return back to this place of peace, love and understanding within us.Īnd when we do this not only do we have more time on enjoying ourselves and the other person, but also we begin to recognize the madness that created the problem that we a moment ago were caught up with in the first place. We tend to get over ourselves and our stressful feelings and recognize what is there left for us to experience when we do.


Those times when we experience a challenge or argue with the other person, we tend to take ourselves less seriously and let go of the feelings of stress sooner. Those times when we get caught up in our thinking, feel disappointed, sad or resentful, we tend to get over ourselves much quicker.

However what it does mean is that there is much more love and joy for us to experience, simply because of our own ability to get over ourselves and connect with that feeling of love within us. It doesn’t mean that everything is always pure joy and love when it comes to our experience. When I think about what effortless relationships mean to me, this is what first comes to my mind.
